Word ‘Perfect’

Hello lovely people,
Hope you are doing great . Well, you must be thinking why I choose this topic to write about.
Phew,  because I’m pissed off hearing it .
Can you help me to find those people who absolutely are fit for this word.✌

Still searching , hope I will find them on this planet.🤔 …..

Where it comes from ?
Do it exist ?
Probably, I don’t think so but then also it’s the most popular word used in our day to lives.
Ain’t you agree?🙄

No matter how much we learnt from our experiences, school, hostel or college life . No matter where we dwells, single , married or not .
Seeking for job or jobless but we all need to be qualified for this word. It’s a copyright of the most eminent people, parents ,grandparents and relatives of course.

My reaction when  I heard this words often.

So, check it out whether you are qualified or not:-
1) Cleaning
2)Cooking
3)Managing
4)Things should be placed in order
5) Quick Decision making
6) socializing
7) Well trained in job
8)Mentally, emotionally fit
9) Bold and Diplomatic at same time
And the list goes on ……
OMG, if a person passes this subject then I don’t consider him/her a human .
Then , he/she will be known as Mr Perfect.
Cool, Right!😉

So, how many of you fall in this category or trying hard to be perfect ?
It’s hardly matter as I don’t believe this word exist in human dictionary because we learn, grow from our mistakes. Life would be boring if everything, every being is perfect .
Then, why often we hear these torturing word from our parents esp (girls can relate)it well.
‘Beta , tumko dusre ghar jana h , har kaam ana chahiye ‘.
‘Har kaam mh perfect hona chahiye , har cheez manage krni ani chahiye ‘.

Ughhhh, Common dialogue !🙄😣
I still believe that there is no one who is perfect on this planet.
It’s only a word , norm made by our closed ones because they have learnt or listened from the other sources(obviously from the society, their parents)😏😣

And applying the same trick on us😂

Guys, Do share your views with me if you agree.
As here, no one is judging us.

Let me know whether you are qualified or not 😁😎

73 thoughts on “Word ‘Perfect’

  1. vishalbheeroo June 8, 2018 / 9:08 am

    You nailed it. Perfection doesn’t exist and the entire stereotyping of roles for men and women reeks of hypocrisy percolating through ill-founded patriarch.

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    • Shayra June 8, 2018 / 9:10 am

      Absolutely . i mean come on , who is perfect and how one can be . sometime , this word hit like a hammer on head .

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      • vishalbheeroo June 8, 2018 / 9:12 am

        I go crazy when see such stupid rules written and who decides what is right or wrong!

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      • Shayra June 8, 2018 / 9:15 am

        Right , me too . i hate this word perfect . sometimes, people all around dont know the exact meaning of their saying , just think its nice to be outspoken .

        Liked by 2 people

  2. MEDHA CHUGH June 8, 2018 / 9:28 am

    If you ask according to society norms, they don’t want you to be perfect..they expect you to be a well furnished, polished good for market..

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    • Shayra June 8, 2018 / 9:46 am

      Exactly but if we talk about our closed ones then what you say for them ?

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      • MEDHA CHUGH June 8, 2018 / 10:01 am

        It’s my personal opinion…
        Perfection lies in thoughts and not actions..if you find flaws in people around you, you are imperfect yourself but if you can appreciate and accept the way they are and can encourage them to become better everyday, then you, yourself are perfect..

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      • Shayra June 8, 2018 / 10:04 am

        That’s brilliant and true definition of perfect . thanks for sharing your thoughts, i will always remember it. 😍👌

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      • Shayra June 8, 2018 / 12:55 pm

        Welcome😆

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  3. indishe June 8, 2018 / 9:34 am

    Do everything to perfection to be judged and torn to pieces.
    Unwritten law …..

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    • Shayra June 8, 2018 / 9:48 am

      Right ! Glad that you can relate it .

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  4. Yasmin June 8, 2018 / 9:50 am

    I can do all that dear yet I ain’t perfect for them😄
    There is nothing called perfect coz to satisfy anyone’s expectations is not less than being a superhero🤣

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    • Shayra June 8, 2018 / 9:53 am

      Right ! We cant satisfy our parents , then to satisfy others is tough job . and i don’t think we need to be perfect . to achieve this perfection, we have to suffer a lot and by just saying She is perfect in every term cant satisfy that struggle .

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      • Yasmin June 8, 2018 / 10:17 am

        I don’t bother to be perfect for anyone now.If I am happy with my self I am Perfect💃.Be it parents or anyone else ,if you try to live according to their expectations you start losing yourself in that process

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      • Shayra June 8, 2018 / 12:56 pm

        Right . thanks for sharing your views😆

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  5. Abhijith Padmakumar June 8, 2018 / 1:50 pm

    You have spoken the truth buddy. There is no perfection and nobody is perfect. It’s just people way of perspective looking and judging, that’s all

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  6. kalyansparks June 8, 2018 / 2:23 pm

    I read one tweet today ,it’s similar to this post..it says that ideal circumstances are created by humans they never actually exist

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    • Shayra June 8, 2018 / 2:45 pm

      But here , i’m not talking about circumstances . talking about can any person fit in everything, chores of day to day lives at every point .

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  7. Shayra June 9, 2018 / 1:51 am

    Thank you so much to agree with me😅

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  8. sandhyajosephine June 9, 2018 / 10:58 am

    Hey Shayra … you’re absolutely amazing I love this post, thanks for following my blog I’ll keep reading your posts will be in touch then❤

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    • Shayra June 9, 2018 / 5:30 am

      Thank you so much . i appreciate that you read it . yes, we will be in touch . i will read your posts soon

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  9. Nathprasad Dhanawat June 11, 2018 / 11:45 am

    Great post buddy 😂.. it happens mostly with girls…no one is perfect in this world.. totally agree with you 🙂

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  10. Sreya: Fitness From Within June 12, 2018 / 6:37 pm

    Hey Sharya! Completely agree with your post. Perfection is much like the past and future. It is something we either reference or stride for but is not real in the present. Because time is always moving forward, new circumstances arise and new conditions are created from those circumstances. Therefore, its impossible to be completely addapted to life and results in the impossibility of perfection. That’s why a sense of higher power is much needed in ones life because it is not restricted by time, therefore it is aware of everything from every moment of the timeline from beginning to end.

    Great stuff! Thanks for subscribing to my blog by the way. Your feedback would be greatly appreciated.

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    • Shayra June 13, 2018 / 4:40 am

      I totally agree with you . thanks for your valuable comment . sure, i will visit soon. By the way, it’s shayra.

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      • Sreya: Fitness From Within June 13, 2018 / 4:42 am

        Oops sorry about the typo. Sounds great!

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      • Shayra June 13, 2018 / 4:43 am

        Thanks😆

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  11. arohitalks June 14, 2018 / 2:18 pm

    There is nothing called perfection, it should be in our thoughts and behavior ..

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  12. arohitalks June 14, 2018 / 2:19 pm

    How are you Shayra, after so many days dear

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  13. The Story Knitter July 11, 2018 / 9:53 am

    I’m perfectly imperfect;)

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  14. Jaya Singh July 23, 2018 / 7:59 pm

    Great post. And so true. That dialogue 😂

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    • Shayra July 23, 2018 / 4:23 pm

      I ‘m glad that you can relate . yeah, that common dialogue irritating😂

      Liked by 1 person

  15. Rabindranath Pradhan September 30, 2018 / 11:49 am

    A good post.

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      • Rabindranath Pradhan September 30, 2018 / 2:39 pm

        My pleasure.

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  16. Manoj Mehra August 10, 2019 / 3:17 pm

    Nice post. No one is perfect. There is nothing like perfection exists in the world. There is always a scope of doing better.

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    • Shayra August 15, 2019 / 6:14 pm

      Glad to see that you agree with it. Thank you. Thanks for your time to read my post

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